Doc Love: Married But Needing Variety reader’s question Hey Doc, First of all, let me say that I have not read “The System” and I don’t know how any of this is going to apply. I just wanted to get that out of the way. So here’s my situation: I’ve been married for 25 years to a wonderful woman who is a supportive and giving person, the best I’ve ever met. What’s the problem? Well, in a word, it’s boredom. Before you attack me for what I’m going to tell you, please consider that there must be millions of guys in my position, which  read more..

Doc Love: Blindsided By Love This week's question comes from a guy who is dealing with a waffling woman who is at times blindsided by love. reader’s question Hey Doc, It will surprise you to know that your material is indeed the truth! I live in Africa and your techniques work here as well as they do in America. I met Ebony during my first year in school. She seemed interested in me and was always finding reasons to hang out with me. I asked her out after being a Challenge, and she told me she’d like to be with me but  read more..

Doc Love: Long-Distance Love This week’s question comes from a guy who doesn’t want to let distance get in the way of a beautiful woman’s interest. reader’s question Hey Doc, I recently started to pursue Catrina, a girl I know from college. Yeah, I can hear you saying “disaster” already. Not so. In college we were not much more than friends. We had classes together, worked on projects together, but I never gave her the time of day beyond that. I played the “I’ve got more important things to do, other women to see” role.  read more..

Doc Love: Maintain Challenge When You Have A Crush This week’s question comes from a guy who needs to know how to maintain challenge when you have a crush. reader’s question Hey Doc, I’m a faithful reader of your columns, and I’ve just ordered your book and I’m waiting for it to arrive. I’ve read several books by other love doctors and so I somewhat understand “Challenge” and other concepts that seem to be common to you all. I have absolutely no problem getting girls or even dating them, but it’s usually when I’m emotionally detached. However,  read more..

Doc Love: Moving Out This week's question comes from a reader who can't figure out if its over or not, despite the moving out aspect of his "girlfriend." reader's question Hey Doc, First I would like to thank you for creating “The System.” It worked for me and has definitely changed my life. I am a frequent reader of your articles and a lot of the advice you give hits home and makes sense. However, after having read through all of your material and practiced it, I am still in need of some more coaching. I was  read more..

Doc Love: Friend Or Foe? This week’s question comes from a guy who’s being sabotaged by his friend. reader’s question Hey Doc, My question is about something you haven’t covered before: dealing with intelligent blockers. I’m a good-looking, 23-year-old man who happens to like two girls. My roommate -- I’ll call him David -- who’s not as good looking as me but definitely has more going on in his career, is also interested in them. I believe that David uses dirty, underhanded tactics to manipulate and convince these  read more..

Doc Love: Imperfect Strangers reader's question Hi Doc, I met Pasha online recently and have spent the last two months chatting with her through instant messaging about three times a week, for hours at a time. (I’ve just read some of your columns and have realized that I might be making some mistakes.) I felt like I was getting fairly close to Pasha, joking around with her and talking about all kinds of stuff. We haven’t actually met in person, but we’ve exchanged photos. she’s a busy girl Last week I found out from Pasha  read more..

Doc Love: Choosing The Better Woman This week's question comes from a guy who needs to choose between two women -- and the choice is pretty obvious. reader's question Hey Doc, I just started reading your articles. I have to say you really know what you’re talking about. I ordered a copy of your book today, but I could really use some help because I’m about to get myself into a tricky situation this weekend. I met Celestria at a bar a week after I broke up with my girlfriend. The first time we locked eyes there was a spark.  read more..

Doc Love: Open Up To Her? reader’s question Hey Doc, I’m a long-time loyal student of yours, and a first-time writer. I’ve read your book, your articles and listened and re-listened to your radio show. I follow “The System” religiously and it works… up to a point. she brought up marriage I’ve been dating Caprice, a Flexible Giver, for 21 months. I stay off the phone, unless it’s to make a date, I’m a Challenge, I keep things light and funny, I even walk on the outside of the curb (and have explained to her why). Even  read more..

Doc Love: Her Past Lovers reader's question Hey Doc, I’m 28, live in Australia and I’m a big fan of “The System,” which I have been learning over the past few years. I want to congratulate you on your coaching, which has helped me a lot. I met my current girlfriend, Sasha, at the gym. She’s 31 and very attractive. I got her number and we went on a date that went very smoothly. At the end, we shared a passionate kiss. I was always confident and Cocky & funny around Sasha and this, along with her physical attraction  read more..